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Why being delusional is a superpower

This piece makes a counterintuitive argument that challenges everything we think we know about success. Derek Muller, the creator of Veritasium, isn't just making a philosophical point — he's showing how believing you're entirely responsible for your own achievements might actually be the secret to getting ahead.

The most striking claim? "If we are just a product of our circumstances then our hard work and our talent seem to count for nothing" — but Muller argues that's precisely where we go wrong. The piece isn't about giving up agency; it's about understanding what psychology makes it work.

Why being delusional is a superpower

Egocentric Bias: The Numbers Don't Add Up

Muller opens with data that sounds almost comedic. When researchers asked multi-author papers how much each author contributed, the average sum was 140 percent. Couples asked to estimate their housework? Combined totals always exceed 100 percent. This isn't humblebragging — it's a fundamental flaw in how we perceive our own contributions.

"You experience and remember vividly all of what you do, but not all of what everyone else does" — so naturally, we overestimate our own contributions and underestimate others. The evidence is everywhere once you know where to look.

This lands because it reframes something we all do — overestimating our role — as a systemic bias rather than an individual failing. It's universal, and that makes it less embarrassing to admit.

Hockey Players and Birthdates: Where Luck Hides in Plain Sight

The hockey player example is the piece's most vivid evidence. Forty percent of NHL players are born in the first quarter of the year — just 10 percent in the fourth quarter. The reason? Youth hockey leagues use January 1 as a cutoff, so older kids in a given year have advantages.

"An early birthday can make you up to four times as likely to be a pro hockey player" — and none of these players feel thankful for their birthdate. They're "largely oblivious to the fortunate events that support our success."

This is where Muller builds his strongest case: luck isn't just about being born in the right country or the right family. Even the timing of your birth creates advantages that compound year after year, making you appear more talented when all that happened was getting older in a specific window of time.

Where You Were Born Matters More Than You Think

Muller introduces what may be the most uncomfortable fact: "around half the variance in income received by people around the world is explained by their country of residence." If you were born in Burundi, with the world's lowest gross national income per capita of just $730 a year, "it doesn't matter how smart or hard-working you are" — you're unlikely to earn much as an adult.

This is jarring because it suggests that our most fundamental assumption about success — that talent and effort drive outcomes — applies only within narrow bounds. Geography sets the ceiling.

The Astronaut Simulation: Luck Compounds When Competition Is Fierce

Muller runs a toy model of NASA astronaut selection from 18,300 applicants where only 11 were selected. Assuming skill accounts for 95 percent of the outcome and luck 5 percent, he simulates this process a thousand times. The result? "The astronauts who were picked were very lucky — they had an average luck score of 94.7."

"Only 1.6 of the 11 applicants selected would have been in the top 11 based on skill alone" — meaning nine or ten of those selected astronauts would have been different if luck played no role at all.

This is the piece's most powerful data point because it shows that when stakes are high and spots are scarce, being talented isn't enough. You need a break.

The Psychology of Success: Why Delusion Serves You

The piece pivots to explain why downplaying luck actually improves success probability. "If you perceive an outcome to be uncertain, you're less likely to invest effort in it which further decreases your chances of success" — so believing you're in control matters, even if that belief is partly false.

"It's a useful delusion to believe you are in full control of your destiny" — this paradox runs through the entire piece. You must believe control is total, but also know it isn't.

Muller then adds another layer: those who attribute success to luck rather than personal qualities donate 25 percent more to charity. The psychology here is clear — gratitude for fortunate circumstances translates into generosity.

The Uncomfortable Implications for Society

The piece's most challenging section addresses what this means for people in power. "Undoubtedly most of them are talented and hardworking but they have also been luckier than most" — and like most people, they don't realize how lucky they are.

This creates a distorted view: successful leaders experience survivor bias. They see hard work rewarded because that's what happened to them. They don't see the many who worked hard and failed. "The natural conclusion is that they must just be less talented or less hard-working" — which makes them less inclined to give back.

Successful people without any malice will credit their success largely to their own hard work and ingenuity, and therefore contribute less to maintaining the very circumstances that made that success possible in the first place.

This is sharp because it shows how individual psychology scales into societal structure. The leaders who set rules for society operate from a flawed perception that makes them less likely to support the systems that helped them.

What Readers Should Do: The Paradoxical Advice

Muller concludes with advice that sounds contradictory but isn't. "First you must believe that you are in complete control of your destiny and that your success comes down only to your own talent and hard work" — but second, "you've got to know that's not true for you or anyone else."

The solution is remembering that luck played a significant role, then acting to increase the luck of others. This isn't just philosophical acceptance — it's actionable generosity born from understanding.

Counterpoints

Critics might note that this argument risks minimizing real structural barriers like discrimination and prejudice. Muller acknowledges it briefly but doesn't fully explore how bias compounds with luck — particularly for people who face systemic disadvantages beyond geography. The piece also assumes a single framework of success (income, status) without examining whether different metrics would change the analysis.

Bottom Line

Muller's strongest move is making the invisible visible — showing that what looks like individual talent is often timing and geography in disguise. His biggest vulnerability is strategic: arguing for both complete belief in control AND awareness of luck creates tension that's hard to resolve practically. The piece works as psychological insight, but readers should watch for how this applies differently across contexts where structural disadvantage isn't just about birth country or birth month — it's race, gender, disability, and many other factors the piece doesn't fully engage.

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Why being delusional is a superpower

by Derek Muller · Veritasium · Watch video

during the covid lockdown this headline went viral nearly half of men say they do most of the homeschooling three percent of women agree i bring this up not to debate who's right but because it's a great example of something called egocentric bias most people think they do most of the work for example researchers have asked authors of multi-author papers what percentage of the work they personally did and when they add up those percentages the sum is on average 140 percent when couples are asked to estimate how much of the housework they do the combined total is almost always over a hundred percent now you might think this is because people want to appear more helpful than they actually are but that's not it when couples are asked what fraction of the fights they start or how much of the mess is theirs the total is again over a hundred people think they do more of the work but they also think they cause more of the problems so why is this i think it's simply because you experience and remember vividly all of what you do but not all of what everyone else does so naturally you overestimate your own contributions and underestimate others and i think this bias leads us to underestimate the influence of other things on our lives like the role luck plays in our success take hockey players for example if you ask a professional hockey player how they managed to reach the nhl they might mention their hard work determination great coaches their parents willingness to get up at 5am and so on but they probably won't acknowledge how lucky they were to be born in january and yet in many years 40 of hockey players selected into top tier leagues are born in the first quarter of the year compared to just 10 percent in the fourth quarter an early birthday can make you up to four times as likely to be a pro hockey player and the reason for this disparity is presumably because the cutoff date for kids hockey leagues is january 1st those born in the first part of the year are a little older and so on average bigger and faster than kids in their league born late in the year now as they grow up this difference should eventually shrink to nothing but it ...