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Silenced Pitches, Ignored Concerns

Between 2016 and 2019, the number of gender-affirming chest surgeries on minors in the United States rose by 389 percent, according to a study published in JAMA Pediatrics. The demographic breakdown was stark: 70 percent of patients were white adolescents, overwhelmingly female-to-male, and concentrated in more affluent populations. A journalist pitched this story to the New York Times. The pitch went nowhere.

The Broadview newsletter, in its ongoing "Your Receipts" series, compiles exactly these kinds of rejected pitches, ignored letters, and spiked stories. The installment reads less like an article and more like an evidence dossier -- a collection of moments where writers, ministers, and activists tried to raise questions through mainstream channels and were met with silence or refusal.

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The Pitches That Died on the Desk

The most revealing documents in the collection are two pitches sent to the New York Times, dated 2021 and 2022. The first is measured and exploratory, proposing a piece on why so many teenagers are identifying as nonbinary. The journalist frames it as a parenting question, noting that many of her own teenager's friends use they/them pronouns.

Many of my own teenager's friends are identifying as nonbinary (as they/them) and I'm wondering why this is becoming so common versus when I was an adolescent. What is driving this?

By the second pitch, a year later, the tone has shifted. The journalist has new data and a personal stake.

This study shows a huge increase in top surgeries for teens between 2016 and 2019 (which doesn't even include the continued rise in trans-identifying kids in the years since 2019).

The writer even offers to step aside from authorship entirely, telling the editor the story matters regardless of who writes it.

I've just been seeing and reading a lot about the huge numbers of white teenage girls transitioning to boys in the last several years. And frankly, it's happening in my house. I have a lot of evidence re. why I think it's happening but I just thought you may want to cover this issue. Not even with me as the writer.

Neither pitch resulted in a published story.

Institutional Refusal

The pattern extends well beyond newsrooms. Unitarian Universalist minister Richard Trudeau submitted a taxonomy of UU ministers who endorse the gender transition of minors. His categories are blunt -- "Fools," "Ostriches," "Sheep," "Toxic empaths" -- and deliberately provocative. The editor of UUnderWorld, an alternative UU publication, declined to publish it.

The 'trans' issue is just not something I want to deal with in the magazine. There is way too much emotion, and from what I have seen in other venues, no one is listening and I cannot allow UUnderWorld to get caught up in that endless, fruitless debate.

The irony is hard to miss. A publication serving a denomination whose 1961 founding document enshrined "a free and disciplined search for truth" will not touch the subject because the debate is too emotional. Trudeau himself skewers this contradiction directly.

Indeed, we need one another in order to maintain the echo-chamber that keeps us UU ministers isolated from common sense and reality.

One fair counterpoint: Trudeau's five-category taxonomy is more polemic than argument. Labeling every minister who disagrees as a fool, coward, or liar does not exactly invite the kind of disciplined inquiry he claims to champion. The framework forecloses the possibility that any minister could examine the evidence and reach a different conclusion in good faith.

Brussels and the Sex-Erasure Debate

The longest and most substantive entry comes from Roisin Michaux, a women's rights campaigner based in Brussels. Michaux wrote to Politico Europe after the outlet characterized concerns about sex-based rights in the European Union as a "toxic culture war" imported by right-wing forces from the United Kingdom, the United States, and Hungary.

Michaux's rebuttal is pointed. She argues that the effort to replace biological sex with gender identity in European law began years ago, was never explicitly stated as a goal, and was packaged under the label of "promoting transgender rights."

The sex that someone feels that they are should have supremacy -- for all purposes -- over the sex that that person actually is.

She traces the dynamic with precision: the media establishment attributed the electoral rise of right-wing populism to imported culture wars rather than considering whether mainstream institutions had ignored legitimate public concerns.

The establishment -- and the media -- reflexively dismissing people's concerns because Orban Man Bad is digging itself into a hole that it will be very hard to crawl out of.

Michaux points to specific harms she considers underreported, including a practice in the Netherlands involving young gender-nonconforming boys.

Did you know that in the Netherlands, young gender non-conforming boys -- who would most likely just turn out to be gay men -- are having their knee joints fused to avoid them growing too tall, for the explicit purpose of helping them "pass" as female when older?

Her piece ends with the news that, on the same day Politico Europe dismissed her concerns, the European Parliament voted to urge the United Nations to recognize that all "trans women are women" and grant them access to women-only spaces, including domestic violence shelters.

It is worth noting, however, that Michaux's argument elides a real tension. She frames her acceptance of speaking invitations from MCC Brussels -- a think tank funded by the Hungarian government -- as pragmatic necessity. That may be true, but it also illustrates how movements can be instrumentalized by political actors whose broader agendas diverge sharply from the cause being championed. The "any port in a storm" framing deserves more scrutiny than she gives it.

Bottom Line

The receipts collected here share a common thread: people attempted to raise questions about youth gender medicine, sex-based legal protections, and institutional groupthink through conventional channels -- newspapers, religious publications, policy outlets -- and were turned away. Whether the gatekeepers were protecting editorial standards, avoiding controversy, or suppressing inconvenient questions is the central dispute, and this collection does not resolve it.

What it does establish is a pattern of institutional silence that is difficult to explain as mere editorial judgment. When a journalist offers to give away her own story just to see it covered, when a religious publication declines a submission because the debate is "fruitless," when a policy outlet dismisses years of activist work as an imported culture war -- the cumulative picture suggests something more systemic than individual editorial decisions. Whether that silence was wise or reckless is a question the mainstream outlets represented here have, so far, declined to answer.

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Thank you for continuing to send your receipts, which I’ll keep sharing. Kara Dansky had the brilliant idea of making a Receipts tab where they will live permanently, so I’ll do that soon.

A compendium of rejected pitches and letters to mainstream Canadian outlets can be found here: “Parent Account: Mainstream Media Ignore Parent Concerns and Mounting Evidence that GAC is Harming Children.”

Journalist pitches to NY Times:

From: XXXX Date: Wed, Aug 4, 2021 at 2:17 PM

Subject: Ideas

Hi XXX

Exploring gender during adolescence. The other idea I find myself thinking about a lot these days is how teens are exploring gender. Many of my own teenager’s friends are identifying as nonbinary (as they/them) and I’m wondering why this is becoming so common versus when I was an adolescent. What is driving this? In my limited experience, it appears that many of the kids are rejecting our society’s binary, gendered norms. I was taught, as a young girl, that girls could do or be anything, just as boys could. For this generation of teens, that seems to be shifting. Gender is both fluid for some kids and irrelevant for others. What is at the heart of this wave of questioning? And how can we parent our teens through this somewhat uncharted territory?

For this article I would talk to developmental psychologists, gender experts, and people in the trans community for their perspectives. I think many parents may be facing this new territory and wondering how to support their children as they evolve.

Thank you so much for considering these ideas,

XXX

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On Wed, Oct 19, 2022 at 11:55 AM - XXX wrote:

Subject: Huge increase in top surgery for trans youth and majority are white adolescent girls -JAMA Pediatrics

Hi XXX,

Just wondering if you’ve seen this new study (attached). I wanted to send it along because I honestly think it’s an important issue to cover.

(We’re dealing with a lot of gender questioning in my house- -with my pre-teen and teenage kids- - and it’s no surprise since it is everywhere and all over tiktok, etc.)

This study shows a huge increase in top surgeries for teens between 2016 and 2019 (which doesn’t even include the continued rise in trans-identifying kids in the years since 2019):

“Between 2016 and 2019, the annual num- ber of gender-affirming chest surgeries increased by 389% (100 in 2016 vs 489 ...